Mary Lou Hale Ridley Wright, a cherished client of Meals on Wheels, is a remarkable embodiment of resilience and creativity. Her journey began at Tuskegee University, where, as a young student, she crafted a dress from a chicken feed sack. This unique creation caught the attention of her peers, and soon, sack dresses were making waves in fashion markets from New York City to beyond. To this day, Mary Lou confidently claims her prototype inspired the trend.
A Legacy of Trailblazers
Mary Lou comes from a family with a legacy of breaking barriers. One brother made history as Kansas’s first Black forest ranger, another was the first Black fire chief in Wichita Falls, Texas, and a third became the first Black pilot from St. Augustine, Texas.
Now, in her late 80s, Mary Lou reflects on her multifaceted life as a storyteller, a dedicated teacher for over fifty years, a jewelry designer and a plus-sized model. Her modeling career began unexpectedly when she accompanied her daughter to a modeling lesson and caught the eye of an agency searching for plus-size African American models. Raised by educators, Mary Lou viewed seizing opportunities as a matter of will rather than chance. She accepted the offer, stepping into a world of television commercials, print advertisements and more. “I did some of it all,” she said with pride.
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Yet, Mary Lou’s path has not been without hardships. After losing her mother at a young age, she moved to Alabama to live with a cousin who enriched her life with culture and education. This nurturing environment propelled her to Tuskegee, where she thrived academically despite a demanding lifestyle.
In her golden years, Mary Lou has faced health challenges, including congestive heart failure. A serious hospitalization in 2020 marked a turning point for her. However, she emerged stronger and more determined than ever. Now, she embraces her role as a Prayer Warrior, offering support and prayers to those in need.
Grateful for the services provided by United Way Meals on Wheels, Mary Lou no longer takes her health for granted. “I used to be the family cook,” she reminisced. “Every holiday, everybody would come to my house.” Now, grappling with energy struggles and mobility issues that require her to use a walker, she relies on the daily delivery of milk, juice and most importantly, nutritious, low-sodium meals.
“It’s wonderful,” she declared. “I have the sweetest people that bring my meals. They are precious. I call them my angels. They always greet me with kindness and sometimes stop to chat, which brightens my day.”
Meals on Wheels, A Vital Source of Support
The Meals on Wheels program has become more than just a source of nourishment for Mary Lou. It represents a connection to her community and a reminder that she is not alone in her journey. The kindness of the volunteers who deliver her meals fosters a sense of belonging and care, illustrating the vital role of community support for seniors facing challenges.
Through her trials, Mary Lou draws strength from her family and community—a legacy of love instilled by her father. As she continues to inspire those around her, she embodies the spirit of resilience, much like the Meals on Wheels program that supports her, ensuring that no one faces the challenges of aging alone. Mary Lou’s story serves as a powerful reminder of the enduring human spirit and the importance of community support.]
This blog is inspired by Meals on Wheels America’s “Mrs. Everything, Mary Lou“