Celebrating Resilience:

Mary Lou Hale Ridley Wright and Meals on Wheels

Mary Lou Hale Ridley Wright has spent her life creating, leading, and breaking barriers.

Now, in her late 80s, she’s still doing what she’s always done—finding strength, sharing wisdom, and inspiring others.

Mary Lou Hale Ridley Wright, a cherished client of Meals on Wheels, is a remarkable embodiment of resilience and creativity. Her journey began at Tuskegee University, where, as a young student, she crafted a dress from a chicken feed sack. This unique creation caught the attention of her peers, and soon, sack dresses were making waves in fashion markets from New York City to beyond. To this day, Mary Lou confidently claims her prototype inspired the trend.

A Legacy of Trailblazers

Mary Lou comes from a family with a legacy of breaking barriers. One brother made history as Kansas’s first Black forest ranger, another was the first Black fire chief in Wichita Falls, Texas, and a third became the first Black pilot from St. Augustine, Texas.

Now, in her late 80s, Mary Lou reflects on her multifaceted life as a storyteller, a dedicated teacher for over fifty years, a jewelry designer and a plus-sized model. Her modeling career began unexpectedly when she accompanied her daughter to a modeling lesson and caught the eye of an agency searching for plus-size African American models. Raised by educators, Mary Lou viewed seizing opportunities as a matter of will rather than chance. She accepted the offer, stepping into a world of television commercials, print advertisements and more. “I did some of it all,” she said with pride.

Overcoming Adversity: From Loss to Resilience

Yet, Mary Lou’s path has not been without hardships. After losing her mother at a young age, she moved to Alabama to live with a cousin who enriched her life with culture and education. This nurturing environment propelled her to Tuskegee, where she thrived academically despite a demanding lifestyle.

In her golden years, Mary Lou has faced health challenges, including congestive heart failure. A serious hospitalization in 2020 marked a turning point for her. However, she emerged stronger and more determined than ever. Now, she embraces her role as a Prayer Warrior, offering support and prayers to those in need.

Grateful for the services provided by United Way Meals on Wheels, Mary Lou no longer takes her health for granted. “I used to be the family cook,” she reminisced. “Every holiday, everybody would come to my house.” Now, grappling with energy struggles and mobility issues that require her to use a walker, she relies on the daily delivery of milk, juice and most importantly, nutritious, low-sodium meals.

“It’s wonderful,” she declared. “I have the sweetest people that bring my meals. They are precious. I call them my angels. They always greet me with kindness and sometimes stop to chat, which brightens my day.”

United Way of Central Alabama believes

All senior citizens deserve the support needed to live independently.

However, almost 12% of people aged 65 or older throughout our six-county region, live below the federal poverty level, and Alzheimer’s disease is the seventh-leading cause of death statewide.

United Way is a hub for senior services, delivering free meals, providing in-home assistance with daily living tasks, enabling access to reduced-cost prescriptions, representing seniors in legal matters and supporting family caregivers, just to name a few of the ways we support seniors.

Three older adults stand together in front of a colorful community mural, with two wearing LIVE UNITED shirts.